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I'm R Don Steele. Author of the NUMBER ONE dating book at Amazon!
In this course you will find the secrets to successful dating. The principles are simple.
They are in nature all around us. In nature, females choose the Alpha male. For you to have the widest selection of females to choose from, you must display that you are the Alpha male.
How do you do this? It's communicated to the females by the way you dress and the way you conduct yourself.
If you dress well, conduct yourself in a "manly" manner, you will be successful.
This course addresses the following -
HOW TO DRESS
Dress like a MAN. In the first 3 seconds, a woman will quickly scan you up and down, then look at your hair, belt and shoes. Within those 3 seconds she will have a feeling in her gut about whether she wants to meet you or not.
If your shoes are shabby and hair needs cutting, she will see that you cannot even take care of yourself, hence you could not take care of her. Remember - what drives her behavior is SEX. Deep in her bones, each man she looks at must be capable of being a father to her children. Even is she is 24 and KNOWS she will have 20 boyfriends before getting married at 30, she is still driven by her DNA to pick those men that "could" be good fathers to her children & take care of her. She cannot help but comply with her DNA, any more than we men can control our urges.
Tom Leykis interview (free) CLICK HERE to listen.
Hear Don interviewed on Tom's radio show. Don discusses why women wish to date older men.
It does not require money or power. It requires you to be a MAN. Dressed well and confident.
WHERE TO FIND WOMEN
Everywhere. They are checking you out and sending signs of interest to you ALL the time. The issue is that we men do not see the signals. We men were not brought up with an understanding of body language.
Some of the signals to look for are - she turns her shoulders to point at you, she looks at you & then brushes her hair or straightens her clothing. This is called "preening".
Learn to recognize her body language signals. Then you will never again end up approaching a woman who is not interested and hence getting shot down.
HOW TO MEET
An Alpha male stands apart from any other men that have approached
her in the past. An Alpha male shakes hands with her. He is warm, friendly and also slightly aloof. He does not immediately radiate "I want to sleep with you" like all the other boys and men she meets. Instead his inner attitude is "I find you interesting. Lets talk. If you play your cards right, we might end up in bed".
Ever wonder about that urban myth - When a man is actively looking for women, he does not get any. Then when he in not looking as life is just too busy, there are women everywhere wanting to meet him.
There is truth here. Women possess intuition. When you are actively looking, they sense that you are desperate. When you are not really looking, they sense that you have a full and interesting life. That you have better things to do that try & meet her. This arouses her interest and she WANTs to be with you and part of that exciting life.
Jay Thomas interview (free). CLICK HERE to listen.
Don discusses the rituals of courtship. The 10 commandments of success are - How to shake hands, correct eye contact, how to complement her (It's critical, that you only compliment her once. Find out why).
WHEN TO CALL
Call between 24 and 36 hours.
All females, from 18 to 80 say the same thing. Call between 24 and 36 hours.
If you call too soon, you are too keen. She knows you REALLY REALLY want her. The chase is over, as she can have you if she wants.
When you call after 2 to 3 days, it demonstrates that you have many other interesting things in your life. You are busy, and yes, you do have some time available to see her as well, if she is interesting & fun that is.
HOW TO CALL
Real men are decisive. Most others that call her say "what would you like to do. I'm flexible, etc".
Women expect the man to take the lead. Do what nature has taught her to expect from you.
How do you do this?
Have a plan such as "let's get together at Dino's pizza at 1.00pm on Thursday".
As a tip, run through Don's "Phone Call Pre-Flight Checklist"
FIRST GET TOGETHER
Make it easy for her to say "yes". This means somewhere easy to get to within 15 minutes of where she
lives or works. Somewhere she knows, like the local mall etc. Somewhere public & non-threatening.
Make it during a weekday. If it's Friday night, or the weekend, it looks desperate, as it tells her that you do not have any plans.
Make it time limited. Why? She does not know if she wants to date you yet or not.
Hence, as it's just for 1 to 2 hours, it easy to say "yes" to. Also, it communicates to her that you are busy, and have made "some" time available to meet. For instance "let's get together at Dino's at 1.00pm. I've got to be back in the office by 3.00pm".
YOUR PLACE
OK, you are at the point where she is coming over for dinner, video, etc.
Your place must be clean. She is not going to roll on the floor in passion if the carpet is sticky, the room
smells stuffy, the couch is dirty, etc.
Your place must be spotless. No hair from previous lovers in the shower. Their DNA programs them to see if you are dating other women. They will see even one hair. No kidding!
Your home answering machine - erase all messages from other women. Turn the volume down to zero. When she is
mating with you, she does not want to hear other women calling & saying "last night was great".
SEDUCTION
You don't seduce a woman by having coffee with her and saying "well how about some sex".
Seduction is slow, one step at a time.
OK, you have her at your place.
Use the Start Stop technique to allow her to prepare herself to mate with you.
She will be excited at the thought of mating. She will also be unsure if it should be "tonight".
The Start Stop technique means she does not feel rushed & overwhelmed with her emotions. It lets her get used to the idea that "tonight is the night".
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