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Must be clean & no evidence of other females
OK, you are at the point where she is coming over for dinner, video, coffee after a restaurant meal, etc.
Your place must be clean. She is not going to roll on the floor in passion if the carpet is sticky, the room
smells stuffy, the couch is dirty, etc.
Your place must be clean. The bathroom must be clean. No mould on tiles, no toothpaste dribbling
onto the vanity unit, no hair from previous lovers in the shower. YES, she WILL look. Yes, she will snoop.
No need to get angry. It's just the way of woman and you will not change it! No man has been able to change it. Accept it and move on.
Women are genetically driven to be sure that they are the "only one". Hence they check.
Therefore, the sheets have been washed and the pillows aired. Women have a very keen sense of smell.
Change the clothes you will wear when you are with her. Do not wear the same clothes that you wore with another woman (unless you have had them dry cleaned). Women can smell the perfume of another woman at 100 miles!
You have already selected a few CD's to play and have them ready. The lights are dimmed slightly. The wine is chilled. Pictures of your family are OK. Pictures of you with any previous girlfriends are not OK.
You have condoms handy to your bed, your couch, your dinner table, wherever you are likely to mate.
If she is at all likely to stay overnight, you have a fresh set of towels for her and a clean unused toothbrush. Also, a variety of breakfast food. You might like a beer and a slice of cold pizza for breakfast, but she might not.
If you would like her to be your girlfriend, then staying the night is ok. If you want her to be your lover, then diplomatically let her know that she cannot stay. Either "tomorrow I need all day to prepare for an important meeting" or "I sleep really badly when not alone & I need to be at work very early".
Marking her territory
If you have more than one lover, check your house after she leaves. She is likely to mark her territory
by leaving her long blonde hair in the shower, a shampoo/makeup bottle in your medicine cabinet, a pair of panties behind
the bed head, all without telling you. If lover number 2 comes over, she WILL KNOW another woman has
been at your place.
Answering machine dangers
Your home answering machine. Erase all messages from other women. Turn the volume down. When she is
mating with you, she does not want to hear other women calling & saying "last night was great".
Also on the home phone, erase your last called number. While you are in the shower, she may hit "redial"
to see who answers. Before she comes over, call the weather service, any number at all, then the last number redial
is safe. Your mobile - turn it off. It should have a PIN required to turn it back on. Else, she will go through
your received calls. The more interested she is in you, the more she is likely to protect herself by
doing these things.
Does this make you angry? It did for me at first. I do not go through other people's phone list, dialed calls, etc. But, women are different. They are programmed to snoop (it is not a sign of disrespect) so as to ensure there is no other competition for the man. It's genetic. They all do it. If you have a sister or a very good female friend, ask them. Almost all will admit to snooping, whether it's the cell phone, the answering machine, or for hair in the shower.
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